Last night I went to the Crocodile to see Hello From Waveland. During the beginning of their set, four 50-something couples, the men dressed in beige blazers, the women dressed in nice evening clothes, walked in, lit up smokes and started shaking their hips. I realized they weren’t from around here when one approached the bar and said, “Two beer. How much?”
Their otherness stood out like a turd in a punchbowl — their attire, their age, their sophistication, mostly their comfortableness with all this distance. I heard later they were Spanish, and their chain smoking confirmed it. Did they read about the Crocodile in a tourism book as somewhere young, hip and not-to-miss? I couldn’t stop watching them — they were having fun — they watched the entire set and took pictures of themselves dancing and gesturing in front of the band. I found myself culturally jealous. The members of my Seattle culture were dressed in black with arms crossed wearing self-conscious scowls on their pale faces. The Spaniards were there to have fun.
by paul » May 27, 2003 4:22 PM
I had a similar experience this wknd. @ folklife. I was up w/my girlfriend visiting her dad. Anyhoo sat. nite we couldn't think of anything better to do and walked down to seattle center; on the "mural stage" there was a sad afro-brazilian drum band. Ugh. I suffered 2 years of that in Eugene. and the crowd: don't get me started. Bridge and tunnel people who only see live music like 2ce a year at a festival or something. But my girlfriend turned to me and said: "isn't this great, everyone is having so much fun! doesn't it make you feel good to see all these people having fun?" The hell of it is, she was right. Can't I go back to being unironic?
by bob » Jun 13, 2003 2:55 PM
I'm tired of people thinking that standing motionless while watching a band has anything to do with cynicism, attitude, pretentiousness, or jadedness.
Just because people don't always express themselves by dancing, moving around, waving hands in the air, etc. doesn't mean that they aren't having a good time.
Perhaps some people act in such a way when they ARE cynical, have an indier-than-thou attitude, are prententous, or jaded; but hardly everyone.
I'm there to enjoy the MUSIC, not dance. Some people are there to dance and ACT like they're having a good time to show others how great of a time they're having.
But I, and people like me, have fun in my own little way, with my arms folded and not moving. Big whoop.
Spaniards, perhaps, enjoy dancing at shows. Perhaps Seattlites do not. It doesn't make one more joyous than the other.
by Cramer Heather » Dec 20, 2003 10:05 PM
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